Hi, I'm Eric.
I'm a relationship coach, and I help couples who still love each other find their way back to feeling close.
I've always been fascinated by people.
For as long as I can remember, I've wanted to understand what drives our choices and how we show up when things get hard. A lot of what I know came from my own relationships, from getting stuck in my own cycles and learning to take responsibility for my part. I've been where you are. That's why I do this work, so couples don't have to figure it out alone.
What I believeMost couples aren't short on love. They're short on the skills nobody ever taught them, me included.
Nobody has to be the bad guy. The problem is the cycle, not the person, and a cycle can change.
When one person starts showing up differently, the whole relationship starts to shift.
What clients say about working with me.
“Working with Eric was a breath of fresh air. You can really sense his empathetic mindset, which results from having walked through many of his own crucibles in the past… Whether it was an hour long conversation or a quick check in, I always took something away that helped me.”
“One of the things I appreciate most about Eric is his courage to be vulnerable. Life has its ups and downs, and his willingness to share his own challenges with me speaks volumes about his character.”
The background behind the work.
I'm a Certified Master Relationship Coach and a Certified Relational Life Therapy (RLT) Coach, trained under Terry Real. RLT is the core of how I work. I also draw on polarity work from David Deida and John Wineland, which looks at the masculine and feminine energy that keeps attraction alive, and on David Schnarch's Crucible Approach, which is all about growing into a stronger version of yourself inside your relationship.
Over the last eight years, I've brought all of this together to help hundreds of couples find their way back to each other.
“You can start this on your own, and most people do. But I've seen it again and again: when you both decide to work on it together, you go further than either of you ever could alone.”
Eric
Start with a free 45-minute MAP call, where we'll map out your first steps, or grab the free Connection Blueprint and try two simple tools tonight.
Have a question first? Email me at eric@evolvedmarriage.com